Lessons Learned in Publishing: Reflecting on My Journey to Becoming a Culinary Mystery Author
- gpgottlieb
- Jun 11
- 4 min read

The moment I got the email offering to publish my first culinary mystery is unforgettable. I hurried into my husband's study, my excitement barely contained. After facing rejection and ghosting from over 100 agents for a year, it felt like winning the lottery. I called S.L. Wisenberg, the editor and writing teacher who helped me turn a chaotic manuscript into a novel, to share the news. She congratulated me and gently reminded me that the real work was just beginning.
Looking back, I realize how little I knew about the publishing world, marketing, and how books find readers. The six months I had to prepare for my book launch were barely enough, especially for someone new to the industry. I hope this post helps other aspiring authors navigate the publishing journey more smoothly.
The Long Road to Publication
Before that life-changing email, I spent three years writing and revising my manuscript. My writing teacher’s guidance was invaluable, but I missed out on connecting with a broader community of writers. I didn’t join a writing group or seek out other debut authors to share experiences and advice. Looking back, it was a missed opportunity.
Writing groups offer more than just feedback on your work. They provide emotional support, practical tips on publishing, and a sense of camaraderie. Sharing stories about rejected queries and celebrating small victories together can keep motivation alive during tough times. If I had joined such a group earlier, I might not have felt so isolated and overwhelmed.
The Importance of Learning the Publishing Trade
I was well-read in fiction, had studied authors like Anne Lamott and Stephen King, and I took several online writing classes. But I never took a class on how to build a social media following or how to market a book. I didn’t read essays or advice from publishing gurus like Jane Friedman or Dan Blank. My lack of knowledge made the launch process much harder than it needed to be.
Publishing is more than writing a good book. It involves understanding contracts, working with editors and designers, planning marketing campaigns, and connecting with readers. Learning these skills early can save time and reduce stress. Knowing how to pitch your book, how to write essays like this one, and how to organize a virtual book tour can help you find your audience.

Finding a Supportive Writing Community
By the time I discovered Guppies, a community for beginning writers that offers classes and camaraderie, I'd already been published. Joining the group before publication might have both improved my writing and lifted my spirits. Luckily, I got active in Sisters in Crime. I continue to be active on the Chicagoland board and have joined both Colorado and Wisconsin groups.
Through Sisters in Crime, I made new friends and was invited to join Blackbird Writers, a small, supportive group of authors. Being part of these writing communities helps me stay motivated, learn new skills, and celebrate everyone's progress.
If you’re starting out, seek out groups or forums where you can connect with other writers. Look for communities that offer workshops, critique groups, and encouragement. These connections can provide valuable feedback and help you navigate the ups and downs of the publishing process.
Managing Expectations and Time
When I signed my contract, I had only six months to prepare for the book launch. I underestimated how much work was involved. From final edits to cover design, formatting, marketing plans, and organizing events, I learned that publishing requires careful time management and realistic expectations.
If you’re approaching publication, start planning early. Break down tasks into manageable steps and set deadlines. Don’t hesitate to ask for help from professionals like publicists or book designers. Remember, a well-planned launch can increase your book’s chances of success.
Embracing the Marketing Side of Publishing
Marketing was the biggest challenge for me. I loved writing the book, but promoting it was unfamiliar territory. I had to learn how to talk about my book, engage with readers, and use social media effectively. This was intimidating at first, but it became easier with practice.
Some practical tips that helped me include:
Creating a simple author website with information about my book and upcoming events
Building an email list to keep readers informed
Participating in online book clubs and forums related to mysteries and culinary themes
Reaching out to bloggers and reviewers who focus on mystery novels
Marketing is an ongoing process. It’s about building relationships with readers and sharing your passion for your story.
The Value of Persistence
Rejection is part of every writer’s journey. I faced over one hundred rejections before my manuscript found a home. Each "no" was discouraging, but I kept revising, learning, and submitting. If you’re struggling with rejection, remember it’s not a reflection of your worth or talent. It helped me to remember that even famous authors like J.K. Rowling and Dr. Seuss received a boatload of rejections. I suggest using the rejection feedback to improve your work, and keep submitting.
Final Thoughts on the Journey
Publishing my first culinary mystery was a milestone, but it was also the start of a new chapter filled with challenges and growth. I learned that writing a book is only part of the process. Building a community, understanding the publishing industry, managing time, and embracing marketing are equally important. And since I write culinary mysteries, when the going gets hard, I stop and bake cookies.
G.P. Gottlieb is the author of the Whipped & Sipped Mysteries (Battered, Smothered, and Charred, Anamcara Press). She is on the board of Sisters in Crime Chicagoland and a member of SinC Colorado, MWA, and Blackbird Writers. As host of New Books in Literature, a podcast channel on the New Books Network, she has interviewed nearly 280 authors.



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